Essays

Writing essays moves me from experience to understanding. Navigating this journey on the page helps me makes sense of my life, and hopefully, nudges my readers toward their own epiphanies. I’ve honed my approach over the years and nearly every essay I’ve penned has been published—and two garnered “honorable mention” awards in the American Society of Journalists and Authors personal essay category. I adapted a third, Bunco!, into a screenplay. If you’re interested in optioning the rights, let’s talk.

Featured Essays

Living With My Dead Husband’s Wife

The Cut, July 2024

My husband’s first happily-ever-after was cut short. Fifteen years into our own, I’m ready to put their story away.

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Why Songs Get Stuck in Your Head—and How to Stop Them

Wired, July 2023

As I’m folding laundry in the bedroom, daydreaming about bike rides, late-night swims, and long summer hikes, I hear my 11-year-old son singing in the shower 20 feet away.

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Grappling With the Science of Touch-Based Healing Practices

Discover, April 2022

Healing touch and other energy-based therapy is entering conventional hospitals. Can biofold manipulation and “subtle energy” research validate them as medicine?

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Personal Essays

“Getting to Know My Husband’s Late Wife By the Words She Left Behind” Literary Hub
“We Adopted Chickens, Chaos Ensued” Good Housekeeping
“I Lost Track of My Son for Two Hours, and It Was One of My Most Terrifying Experiences as a Parent” Good Housekeeping
“Charlie’s Angels” Revel
“Skating Toward Healing” Unity Magazine
“My Husband’s Mom Left When He Was 2 — and He’s a Better Dad Because of It” What’s up Moms
“I Skipped the Santa Claus Tradition With My Three Sons, and They Still Have Christmas Spirit” Good Housekeeping
“The Pandemic Made Me a Private School Mom” Motherwell
“Beagle Bodhisattva” Unity Magazine
“My Husband’s Massive Toy Collection Was Driving Me Crazy, Until the COVID-19 Pandemic” Good Housekeeping
“Hummingbird Healing” Unity Magazine
“Teaching our kids the holiday spirit by having them take a turn as Santa” Washington Post
“Why we keep the memory of my husband’s late wife alive for our children” Washington Post
“How I Found True Christmas Spirit in the Aisle of Trader Joe’s” RealSimple.com
“The Old Man Who Reminded Me of My Father” PurpleClover.com
“No Good Deed” Purple Clover
“Charlie and Me” Purple Clover
“The Accidental In-Law” Spirituality & Health
“The Man Who Toyed With His Affections” LA Times
“The Remarkably Cool Professor” Purple Clover
“Learning to Breathe” The New York Times
“The Angel Next Door” Good Housekeeping
“Declaring War on the Thumb Leaves Battle Scars” New York Times “Motherlode”
“Being Touched” O The Oprah Magazine
“A Fine Specimen” Proto
“Take a Bath With a Stranger?” The Los Angeles Times
“Friendship, Advice, and a Roll of the Dice” Newsweek

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